I remember first hearing the word cancer when I was nine years old. In hushed tones the family was discussing grandma's experience with breast cancer. It was a "secret". I was 27 years old when I was diagnosed with cervical cancer. I was living in San Francisco, enjoying an exciting nursing career, and engaged to the man of my dreams when my world came to a screeching halt.

In my experience the medical team did not include the patient. There was no informed consent, no support services, no decision making process. My role was limited to following directions. As a nurse I had answers, but as a patient I needed support and the sense of involvement in my own health care.

As a survivor of cancer I know the feeling of helplessness, of the need for an educated ear. My role at the Breast Care Center includes the development of Early Detection programs and the expansion of Lymphedema education, which now includes a program for Women at Risk. Through my interaction with patients I am able to answer questions, clarify information, reduce anxiety and help motivate women to make educated decisions about health care.